have u ever been in a position where u know its entirely wrong but because the people around u think that its alright or its cool so u decided to just to keep quiet.
especially when u can see the damage being done right in front of your face, and u want to reach out to help but it doesnt seem like the right thing to do (or rather for the fear of being mocked at or condemned for that?)
its like watching those high school movies where the popular groups always be the one to rule the school and whoever that in their mind doesnt fit in is considered weird and therefore alienated....its a cruel, cruel world out there.
im speaking of the truth...it doesnt happen only in movies but in everyday life whether we realise it or not. being in a click may seems cool but sometimes it takes so much from u. during your daily encounter with other people, u experience different type of people, many kind, many breeds...sometimes u wonder, where on earth these people come from or u go like, is it possible for someone to be like this?so cruel??
but it happens....and theres nothing u can do about it....even superman cant do anything about it! he can lift up a meteor or save an old lady from being hit by a bus among other things but i dont recall him ever went up to some school kids and say kids, do not mock him!...hehe.....if so, then superman might not have enough time to save the world coz people are being mocked like, all the time??
i have a friend who has never been in a click before. she has many friends but she was never in the same group for two consecutive years. five years of secondary school, five different group of friends,(belum masuk primary school lagi...) and even those people are not considered as her mutual friends. i must say, even when i was at school back then, people often asked me about her. but since we weren't close back then (hell, we never had a real conversation since primary school!) i just shrug it off...i guess its true when they say, fate has its own turn...i never knew that one day she became one of my close friend. but thats another story.
well, the reason why she doesnt want to be in a click is because of this. everybody has their own belief and principle. there will come a time when u have to deal with a situaion where u have to choose between ur principle or trying to compromise with the situation. it might not be something that u would do but at the time it seems like the best thing to do and this friend of mine refuse to deal with that so, she chose to not be in a click where she can be herself without trying to fit in with other people.
sometimes u feel like you've know this person all ur life. like as if he/she was there from the day u were born. so close that u think u know whats his next action, how he will react, u can even finish his sentences. but bear in mind that we each wear different masks. if he acts that way with u, he might act differently with other people. why is that so? i would say that, we have to learn to adjust to situation and the people we encounter. if we are with adults then its only right for us to behave as an adult, show the mature side of us but if we are among our friends then we can be as immature as we like...as long as we dont annoy them =)
same goes with being in a click. sometimes u dont think what they do to certain people is right but u just keep quiet for fear that u'll be the next target. and lets face, most of us love the idea of being liked and accepted by the society. i dont say ALL but MOSTLY....
and that brings me to the next question....does that define who you are? i mean, the act of ur click members and the fact that u dont do anything to stop them. does that define who you are? what exactly defines a person as a whole?
to me, WORDS certainly doesnt define a person. everyone can talk. everyone can say something. even if he starts reciting the Holy book, does that makes him better than u? of coz not! you can even teach a crazy guy to recite the sentence but does he know what he's talking about? and if u are to believe that words itself can define a person then, you are by far the biggest fool ever!
what about action?does ACTION defines a person? if so, the action done by ur click and the fact that u do nothing to stop them defines who you are. but that not entirely true....under different circumstances where u can be urself and dont depend on others, u might not have taken the same action they took.u might have handled it differently.
so what defines a person as a whole? to me personally its INTENTION...what u wish for...thats what matters. because these intentions come from within u and they dont fool you.u can lie to the whole world but not urself. u may run from the truth but how long can a person runs from himself?sooner or later he will realise it and have to deal with it. unless of coz they fail to realise and soon become mentally deranged because of that...
back to back, its ur inner self. what u want? how u feel? so on and so forth....
how u deal with situation is up to you. some people may handle it well. some people may not. there are things in our lives that we are not proud of. but its done....so there's no use fretting about it.
i hope i'll be more stronger in dealing with this kind of situation. to try to stand up for my beliefs and try not to be someone that i detest most, a hypocrite...
especially when u can see the damage being done right in front of your face, and u want to reach out to help but it doesnt seem like the right thing to do (or rather for the fear of being mocked at or condemned for that?)
its like watching those high school movies where the popular groups always be the one to rule the school and whoever that in their mind doesnt fit in is considered weird and therefore alienated....its a cruel, cruel world out there.
im speaking of the truth...it doesnt happen only in movies but in everyday life whether we realise it or not. being in a click may seems cool but sometimes it takes so much from u. during your daily encounter with other people, u experience different type of people, many kind, many breeds...sometimes u wonder, where on earth these people come from or u go like, is it possible for someone to be like this?so cruel??
but it happens....and theres nothing u can do about it....even superman cant do anything about it! he can lift up a meteor or save an old lady from being hit by a bus among other things but i dont recall him ever went up to some school kids and say kids, do not mock him!...hehe.....if so, then superman might not have enough time to save the world coz people are being mocked like, all the time??
i have a friend who has never been in a click before. she has many friends but she was never in the same group for two consecutive years. five years of secondary school, five different group of friends,(belum masuk primary school lagi...) and even those people are not considered as her mutual friends. i must say, even when i was at school back then, people often asked me about her. but since we weren't close back then (hell, we never had a real conversation since primary school!) i just shrug it off...i guess its true when they say, fate has its own turn...i never knew that one day she became one of my close friend. but thats another story.
well, the reason why she doesnt want to be in a click is because of this. everybody has their own belief and principle. there will come a time when u have to deal with a situaion where u have to choose between ur principle or trying to compromise with the situation. it might not be something that u would do but at the time it seems like the best thing to do and this friend of mine refuse to deal with that so, she chose to not be in a click where she can be herself without trying to fit in with other people.
sometimes u feel like you've know this person all ur life. like as if he/she was there from the day u were born. so close that u think u know whats his next action, how he will react, u can even finish his sentences. but bear in mind that we each wear different masks. if he acts that way with u, he might act differently with other people. why is that so? i would say that, we have to learn to adjust to situation and the people we encounter. if we are with adults then its only right for us to behave as an adult, show the mature side of us but if we are among our friends then we can be as immature as we like...as long as we dont annoy them =)
same goes with being in a click. sometimes u dont think what they do to certain people is right but u just keep quiet for fear that u'll be the next target. and lets face, most of us love the idea of being liked and accepted by the society. i dont say ALL but MOSTLY....
and that brings me to the next question....does that define who you are? i mean, the act of ur click members and the fact that u dont do anything to stop them. does that define who you are? what exactly defines a person as a whole?
to me, WORDS certainly doesnt define a person. everyone can talk. everyone can say something. even if he starts reciting the Holy book, does that makes him better than u? of coz not! you can even teach a crazy guy to recite the sentence but does he know what he's talking about? and if u are to believe that words itself can define a person then, you are by far the biggest fool ever!
what about action?does ACTION defines a person? if so, the action done by ur click and the fact that u do nothing to stop them defines who you are. but that not entirely true....under different circumstances where u can be urself and dont depend on others, u might not have taken the same action they took.u might have handled it differently.
so what defines a person as a whole? to me personally its INTENTION...what u wish for...thats what matters. because these intentions come from within u and they dont fool you.u can lie to the whole world but not urself. u may run from the truth but how long can a person runs from himself?sooner or later he will realise it and have to deal with it. unless of coz they fail to realise and soon become mentally deranged because of that...
back to back, its ur inner self. what u want? how u feel? so on and so forth....
how u deal with situation is up to you. some people may handle it well. some people may not. there are things in our lives that we are not proud of. but its done....so there's no use fretting about it.
i hope i'll be more stronger in dealing with this kind of situation. to try to stand up for my beliefs and try not to be someone that i detest most, a hypocrite...
