HATE THE PLAYER??

sometimes i just dont understand how human brain functions (In certain people). i wonder if they actually know the answer but keeps on asking why or they just choose not to know what seems to be an obvious answer. or is it only obvious to me but not to others? i just dont know...

i mean com'on, use ur logic.

here's the situation. u have a guy who obviously likes u. he's been showering u with gifts, gives u money (monthly it seems), takes u out on holidays, bla, bla, bla.... and u on the other hand knows from the start that u dont like him, do not have any feelings what-so-ever for him, yet u choose to be 'scandalous' (which means: involving stories about dishonest or immoral things that someone has done.....if only she knew what it really meant) which i'd rather call it a fling. so, ure not serious with him from the start, eventhough uve told him that u dont plan to OFFICIALLY go out with him (in other words, declaring to the whole world that ure involve with someone) its crystal clear that he doesnt get it, and he obviously wants more from u. and u know this! u knew it all along... even so, u keep in contact with him, answering his phone calls and messages even when u claim that ure sick of him, taking his gifts and money even when u say u didnt ask for it.

so lemme ask u this...

can we blame the guy for calling her continuously? even if she said it to his face that she doesnt like him, but yet she picks up his calls (even if she was pretending to be someone else) can u really blame the guy?

my logic is so simple. u dont like him, then stop answering his calls no matter how many hundred times hes calling u and stop taking his money. how hard can that be? theres no use complaining to other people, saying that ure being harrased by this man, when in reality i think shes the one whos looking for the trouble to begin with.

if u want to play the game, then i say play it well...so in the end of the day, u can proudly tell ur man "dont hate the player, hate the game," but if this is how the game is played, then how can u not hate the player?